It Tastes Like Salty Pancake Mix

Reading posts I came across a comment madein this blog, in which (s)he states: "many girls see fellatio as degrading". I believe that this is one of the pitfalls of pornography.

It's no secret that people watch porn. Although It is not commonly used as a learning tool, mannerisms and attitudes are picked up by watchers through its use. Part of this would be for women to see fellating a man as a degrading action (I imagine it has something to do with the head-pushing thing). Beyond the aforementioned action, a large part of this attitude is due to how it is shown: that the man has the control, commanding his partner to "suck his cock". However, what is completely misunderstood is that the girl is truly the one with the power and control. She can opt to oblige her male counterpart, or to ignore his request.  She can please, do a mediocre job, or hurt (she can even severely maime, but I believe there are litigations attached to that).  

I think that if respect were purported as the fundamentals of any relationship, sexual or otherwise, there would not be this confusion.  Moreover, girls might be more willing to fellate their men