I Don’t Wanna Grow Up, I’m a Toys ‘R Us Kid

Oftentimes, an idea must be repeatedly presented to a person in order to stick. This is how I felt when I read this week's article in the course reader. Since I've previously posted my sentiment about protecting children, I decided to move on and read the following, and final, article in the reader. I hope my quest for more knowledge does not offend those of you who like order.

I will admit, I initially decided to read "Teledildonics Now" for two reasons: a) it was not what I was assigned to read, and hence inherently more enticing, and b) it was about sex toys. My (more outer than) inner child approves anything in regards to toys.

The article basically reviewed sex toys that were making use of technology, mainly those involving "sexual encounters via a web interface with a virtual partner" (Teledildonics Now). It relates the difficulties involved in catering to web users, mainly that most of the software was PC-compatible only, as well as the need to provide a new technology, and subsequently create a demand for it in order to ensure the success of the project.

In my opinion, the development of toys to be used online is phenomenal. It promotes a more stimulating, and perhaps healthier, version of cybersex. It allows for two things, depending on the situation. It can maintain anonymity, or bring a couple who are far apart closer together. The more successful of these toys allow for an interactivity: the partner controls the intensity and type of vibration, making cybersex more like sex being that there is a greater ability to give and take as is done in person. This quality is an important part of any relationship-one wants to feel as if they are desired, and that they are being given their pleasure. This is why many view masturbation as a lonely activity.

I found this article to be the most appropriate way to finish the reader. The author states that the "first thing[ ] humans want to do with new technology is to sexualize it." This is how we started the semester: a discussion of how the adevnt of VHS was proliferated by the adult industry. Very fitting.

On a final (and totally unrelated) point, I would like to thank everyone for taking the time to read my thoughts on such a touchy subject. This course afforded me insight into the legislation and workings involved with the porn industry. Additionally, the course allowed me to openly discuss sex, which, unfortunately, in a discussion among friends gets nothing but a few jokes, and perhaps a lecture to an irresponsible friend about the use of condoms. My only wish is that a course like this could be followed up by a course on human sexuality. One can dream, no?